Daily Archives: Monday 9 November 2009

So where did the rape culture at St Paul’s come from?

Some current and former inmates residents of St Pauls College at the University of Sydney set up a pro-rape Facebook group, saying they were “anti-consent.” There seems to be a culture of rape at St Pauls, and at other colleges at the Sydney University. It’s not just the Facebook group – there seems to be a whole lot of other “recreational” and social behaviour based around the denigration, and rape of women at Sydney University’s colleges [link]. FuckPoliteness has an excellent rant about it, Hoyden Mary analyses college rape culture based on her own experiences of living in a college a few years ago, Kayloulee (in comments at HaT) describes her experience of living in a Sydney University college right now, Penguin Unearthed worries about nurturing misogyist culture, newswithnipples notices that news.com.au has rewritten the story to downplay the issue of consent, and Jezebel points out Facebook’s appalling standards – it let the pro-rape group stay up for months, but removes pictures of breastfeeding mothers. Gentle readers, welcome to rape culture. You’re soaking in it.

As Mary says at Hoyden about Town, the rebuttal stories, the counterpoint stories, the ones that point out that there are lots and lots of good things about colleges and it’s all overblown and it’s just a few bad boys and the rest are really all decent chaps, and no matter what, IT”S NOT THE COLLEGE’S FAULT, will start to appear tomorrow. But in the meantime, Dr Ivan Head, the Warden of St Paul’s College, has sent off a very prompt response to the Sydney Morning Herald. (Funny how they never respond to rape allegations quite so quickly.)

Apparently…

The College holds all forms of sexual assault, rape or any proven incitement to rape to be abhorrent and we hold in varying degrees of condemnation anything that detracts from the freedom and dignity of women on campus and within our grounds. We at times work night and day on behalf of the women and men on campus to sustain a 24/7 environment in which learning is enhanced and enriched and in which we aim consistently at good, better and best outcomes.

You can go read the rest of the Warden’s response, and you will see that it does indeed hit all the high points. But what gets me is this. Where the hell does the Warden think the rape culture among residents of his college comes from? Does he really think that it just sprang full grown from the brow dick of Zeus? Or just maybe, is there something poisonous about the college, which turns otherwise decent young men (of course they are decent young men – they come from the best schools and the wealthiest families in Sydney) into misogynist groups who think it’s funny to say things like, “They can’t say no with a c–k in their mouth.” And it’s quite clear that it’s not just talk; women at the colleges report having been raped, living in fear of rape, not feeling safe even in their own rooms. There is something deeply wrong about the social structures that are nurtured within the walls of St Pauls.

But to top it off, this comment that shows that the Warden just doesn’t even understand how far off the planet he is.

St Paul’s College in the University is … one of those rare places in which the radical possibilities of life in a modern ‘secular monastery’ can be explored by an increasingly diverse group of very able students.

He is so deadened to the rape culture within the walls of the college that he oversees that he regards it as a ‘secular monastery’. Trying to cover up rape and rape culture by cloaking it in holiness, is he? Which reminds me, most of those colleges seem to be run by various Christian denominations. The churches who lend their names to these colleges should be feeling deeply ashamed. Do you think they will do anything about it?

No sex please – we’re Catholic

Apparently there’s going to be a new Health and Physical Education National Curriculum, which is going to include sex education. I say apparently, because google as I might, and search through ministers’ and departments websites, the only reference I could find to it was in an article in the Sydney Morning Herald: Row over sex education.

Dr Dan White, the CEO of CEO Sydney (that would be the Catholic Education Office, in charge of all the Catholic Schools in Sydney, and their CEO is referred to as the Executive Director, but I couldn’t resist writing about the CEO of the CEO) is upset that the proposed sex education will include information about, oh noes, abortion and contraception, and even how to access them. He wants parents to be able to withdraw their children from classes (because, after all, ignorance is the best policy /sarc), so he doesn’t want any compulsion about sex education classes.

On the surface, what he’s saying is quite reasonable.

Our students need to be aware of abortion and contraception in sex education classes in Sydney Catholic schools,” he said.

”We would not be happy, however, if these were the preferred methods advocated. We clearly explain to our students about the Catholic Church’s strong moral stance and the right to life of the unborn child.[link]

For starters, unless he’s got prior access to the proposed curriculum, we don’t even know what’s going to be taught. Even then, really, surely, isn’t contraception preferred! We all know that people have sex, we know that kids have sex, we know that no amount of telling them that they ought not have sex outside a stable secure married relationship per the Catholic church’s morality, is going to stop them. Just maybe, it might be best to help kids to be safer in their sexual relationships, rather than preaching that contraception is immoral.

It all points to some screwed up thinking by the Catholic Education Office. There’s the standard stuff-up, of course – arguing against contraception even though it presumably decreases the likelihood of the greater evil of abortion, but that’s not what I’m particularly concerned about right now. It’s more the tacit admission by the CEO that its teaching on abortion and contraception isn’t all that effective. If the CEO thinks that its immoral teaching on abortion and contraception and abortion is sound, then it won’t need to worry about young Catholic women and young Catholic men having access to information about them. They will believe in the church’s teaching in any case, so they will happily note the information, and then simply not use it. Either that, or the CEO realises that it needs to restrict information and brainwash young people in order to get anyone to adhere to its medieval morality. It always looks very suspicious to me when a religious group, which claims to know the truth, thinks it has to withhold information in order to get people to follow its rules.

I’m not sure that this is a kerfuffle, or in the SMH’s words, a “row” in any case. It looks to me as if a reporter has found out that there is going to be a new curriculum, that it’s going to contain sex ed, and that the sex ed will include genuinely helpful information about access to abortion and contraception, and then raced off to a handful of the usual suspects to get some rent-a-quotes. The newspaper article has a quote from a spokesman for the responsible minister, Julia Gillard, but there’s no press release. And the spokesman points out that there’s a consultative process to go through yet, so there will be plenty of time for the Catholic church to insert its immoral message against abortion and contraception into the conversation.

Update: Jo Tamar has got an excellent post about this too – How immoral to acknowledge to kids that yes, sex happens